It began like any other day…the sun was shining, the birds were singing, I was having a cup of coffee and talking with my sister on the phone. I was updating her on the newest addition to our family and telling her that I have started the process of introducing Navajo words to him at two months old.
I was slowly going down the parts of the body while he looked into my eyes with rapt attention. I got to his arm and could not remember how to say the Navajo word for elbow. WOW. I asked my sister to please refresh my memory and she drew a blank. UNBELIEVABLE. My big sister knows more than all of us about our traditions and our language, and I had just stumped her.
Of course, this caused us to get really involved in naming ALL the parts of the body and we found we also could not remember how to say “cheeks” (the ones on your face, not the ones you sit on.) This evolved into calling other family and friends who reminded us how to say cheeks but no one had a clue how to say elbow.
This was serious business! My sister had chosen that day to take the long boring drive from Phoenix to Tucson and as she was driving along, it came to her. She left me a message and she probably called everyone else back to update them as well. Apparently the question had spread to other family members because I received a call from the heart of Navajo country from a relative that also supplied the word and chided us for being out of touch. Much deserved chastising, I might add.
The language memory exercise brought home to all of us how much we are missing and losing due to lack of practice and use. We made a vow and are determined to teach and use everything we know from our culture and traditions so that we can continue to teach our children.
Big lesson learned.